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Maybe you're the kind of a guy who hangs out with women often and also hooks up with them time and again and has fallen prey to the whole 'hook-up' culture. Yeah, there's nothing wrong in that but sometimes you need more than just women hanging with you and around you and you need more stability in life. You could harness stability out of your well deserving jobs and other financial factors prevalent in your life but at the end of the day, you do need companionship, which is not callous in nature, to fulfill any amount of stability that you may be longing for.
So, in case you have someone in your life you occasionally hang out with and need her to be more than a hangout friend, maybe your girlfriend, there are some ways you can make a polite manoeuvre and make her see the other side of you.
You'd probably see her as someone you can date and watch an episode or two of 'Black Mirror' with and fill a void that no one has ever dared to fill before. It's perfectly natural to feel a certain way for someone you spend a lot of your time with but honestly, there is a way to bring up how you feel towards a person and you can't just spring it to her, expecting her to understand how you feel. You have to naturally build the process and make her see the other side of you. It's an effort, yes but it's worthwhile.
Telling a girl you hang out with a lot that you want to make her your girlfriend is a delicate process but if you play your cards right, there is no taking away from it.
So, ditch the hook-up, hangout scenario you got going and get yourself a serious girl you already spend enough time with! You can't just bombard her with special attention and feelings instantly. It takes time to make her believe that this is some real stuff.
First-off, increase the frequency of meeting her. If you guys hang out twice or thrice a week, maybe try and see her every other day for a few hours. If you do it abruptly, I am sure you'll scare her off.
Start small and make an impact instead. Ask her for a movie night perhaps? The idea is to start treating her like a ificant other, before you actually ask her out. By that I mean give her needs some special attention and make her stand out from the crowd, so she knows through your actions how you actually feel. Be fun, be charming. If you two are mindlessly hooking up, shift your focus away from that and get to know her better, without being in a rush. All you have to do is start treating her differently than you would, and she will slowly get the hint. Making her meet your friend is quite important and a big deal and your friends are the people you're closest to, who know you well enough to know your personal life too.
So making her meet your friends is an indication enough about how important she is to you.
She may see you as a friend or someone she just hangs out with but you need to make her see you in a way where she connects with you emotionally. Because that's the foundation of a good relationship; a healthy emotional connect. Put in the exact amount of effort you would for any new girl you're attracted to and connect with her on a more fundamental level. After you've established all of the above, it's finally time to tell her exactly how you feel.
At least you've laid the groundwork and have formed a stronger equation than what you shared with her before. So, smile when you tell her how you feel and be extremely nonchalant about it and not needy. She will definitely be pleasantly surprised.
When you finally have her, don't let her go! You've put in so much effort to bring her here, I am sure she's a keeper! Commitment is a big thing and if you've made one, stick to it thoroughly. Going from friends to something more always has a special bond attached to it. It's because you've already understood each other when you were friends and are exploring a completely new territory, which has given you a completely new connection. Shop Read. up with us to unlock all features!
Relationship Advice. By Robin Wood. So, go ahead, take your time and when the moment is right, make her all yours! Share this story. What's on your mind? Start a conversation, not a fire. Post with kindness. Post Comment.
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